A number of years ago, I ran into some professional problems at the same time we were building our new home. I found myself sitting alone BELOW THE FIG TREE in our backyard questioning how we were going to make it. We had lost a number of clients overnight and had no place but a foundation to live. More than a decade later we have enjoyed birthday parties, homecoming celebrations, wedding showers and family dinners under that same fig tree. A number of years ago we lost the neighboring apple tree which caused the fig tree to go through a lot of trauma. We contemplated taking it out and fortunately my always-wise wife had it treated. It might not be at the glory it was a decade ago but it seems a fitting analogy for my blog.
The other day when I was diagnosed with Lymphoma, something triggered in me. I went home to eat my lunch BELOW THE FIG TREE just like I did a decade ago. Whether it is the quiet strength it lends me when I need to be alone, the reminder of family and friends celebrating or the notice that we aren’t perfect the fig tree gave me confidence that everything was going to be ok. God put that fig tree in my backyard for a reason and it has survived for a reason. We didn’t plant it, I’m not too fond of figs, it is messy and attracts rodents but it serves as a symbol for my battle and what I will need on this journey — a quiet destination for reflection and prayer; a symbol of experienced healers who will guide me and most importantly a place for me to draw upon family and friends.
I’m not really sure what I plan on sharing — I’m sure some days will just be technical updates about tests, doctors appointments and treatment and other days might be a little more spiritual. Whatever it is, welcome to my backyard BELOW THE FIG TREE.
Below the Fig Tree 
Keeping you and your family in our prayers, Tom. We’re sorry you have to go through this. We are here for moral support, meals, kid care, and more.
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I don’t even know where to begin Tom . First know you are and will be in my thoughts and Prayers Daily . I believe this Blog is both Great for us to keep up with what is happening, but more importantly I believe it’s a very therapeutic way for you to get your thoughts and feelings out , kinda like a journal . I commend you for your Wonderful Attitude, that alone will help you , and knowing Shannon as I do she will keep you laughing especially with the girls they keep your spirits up also . Take GOOD CARE of yourself Tom , I will make sure I have the East Coast keeping you in Prayer !!
All My Love , your cousin (by marriage) TRISH 💖❤️️❣️🙏😊
( by marriage) just means your stuck with too 😉 💖
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Tom, Anika Rohrabacher (Dana’s daughter) just went thru this. It was a year + but she is now in remission. You know I love and adore you and I will warn you Greeks know how to pray – God is being swarmed with prayers for you and he will hold and comfort you and Shannon and the kids now and forever. God Bless TOM ROSS!!!!
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Tom –
I know this is a really crazy and uncertain time – and keeping up with what which specialist says and recommends can be daunting at times. Just know that you have prayer warriors that are holding you up in prayer when you may not even realize it. We don’t have to know all the ins and outs of what’s happening. We know that God knows what you need and we just call on Him and ask for Him to provide what you and your family needs.
Having faith in God is the most important thing, having a strong advocate for you is the second most important. The rest all just comes together.
God bless you and your family!
Jalene
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Our entire family has you in our thoughts and prayers….you have a lot of living to do and a beautiful family that will help you along the way. Our hugs and love go to you, Shannon and the girls.
Shelley & Tyler Wetton (Connor Christopher’s mom and stepdad)
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